Who is a Quad session for?
For any couple who feel their issue or problem could benefit from the focussed inquiry that Quad offers. Possible reasons to come could include:
- Feeling in a stuck pattern of behaviour with each other, either generally or in relation to something particular
- Feeling at a crossroads of some kind, in the relationship
- Having a specific problem, perhaps with a family member, or relating to a difficult decision that affects both parties
- Both members seeking a life-changing breakthrough of some kind
A Quad session is typically (but not necessarily) for a heterosexual couple in a non-platonic relationship.
We do see the gender balance (of two men
and two women together) as an advantage, but not as a condition, of the session.
Quad sessions are not for
- Couples where domestic abuse or serious addiction is part of the picture
- Couples where only one member is committed to the process
- Couples who are unwilling to be challenged or to accept that change can involve profound struggle